WARNING: There were people around when I was filming, *that’s why*
I’m stumbling and suck for the first 30 seconds or so.
(Watch and you’ll understand)
[Then watch VIDEO PART 2 at the bottom of this page]
Yes there is a devil and it is the most insidious
thing there is.
Especially for those of us (maybe you) that have
been avoiding a lot of the things, people etc in your life.
It’s when you avoid much of your life for a certain period of time and you
go “man I’m far behind where i should be in my life compared to others”.
Maybe others your age have already been through 1-2 years of education for
their careers and you have yet to get started.
Maybe you are years “behind” in various aspects of your life. Meaning you avoided
what you had to do for months or years, and you feel you’re so far behind that
you’re really discouraged.
So discouraged and depressed about it that you can’t even seem
to be able to get started!
Like there’s so much you need to do to “catch up” with others your age that you
can’t get yourself to start taking your first step climbing what you see as the big mountain.
For your sake, for your life.
…for your happiness, for this specific time in your life.
Don’t get stuck in that cycle of “I’m so far behind it depresses me and discourages
me so much I can’t even get started”. And that becomes a cycle of never getting
started cause you’re already so far behind.
Because the more you wait, the more discouraged you get, and you just keep not
moving forward. And that loop and cycle gets stronger. You get trapped
in that never ending loop.
And the only thing that will happen is you will wake up older and older, and have
more and more regrets.
And you’re still gonna have to get up and do something about it anyway… so why not
do it now before you waste even more time of your very short life..?
All we can do is focus on the now.
One of the biggest tip is to only always focus on the next
step ONLY and do it.
So like I’m doing right now, we need to figure out what the next few steps
are for us to take, and then just focus on the very first/next step ONLY.
Once done, focus on the next step.
After having read and studied so many people and books etc, I’ve discovered this
mindset and process to be used by the most succesful people: They simply and ONLY focus
on the next step and just do it.
So take a deep breath, remember that not moving forward because you’re discouraged
of being so far behind will only lead you in circle wasting even more time of your life
so snap out of it… and just focus on and do the NEXT STEP~
One step at a time mate. One step at a time…
[PART 2] BTW, I know your Past. I Get it…
So I did this video right after the one above.
(Watch them one after the other).
I had to add that, yes beside the present and future being a problem, getting you
discouraged by how far “behind” you are compared to others, the past can really
sting and hamper you to move forward as well.
I get it.
Watch the video below and see the one goddamn truth you can’t
escape about your past. And how I’m dealing with it myself: